{"id":693,"date":"2020-10-16T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-10-15T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tnvanrooyen.com\/?p=693"},"modified":"2020-10-10T03:18:04","modified_gmt":"2020-10-09T15:18:04","slug":"questions-and-answers-13","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tnvanrooyen.com\/?p=693","title":{"rendered":"Questions and Answers #13."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"512\" data-attachment-id=\"262\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/tnvanrooyen.com\/?attachment_id=262\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tnvanrooyen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Magnifying-Glass2-1024x819.jpg?fit=1024%2C819&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1024,819\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-title=\"\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tnvanrooyen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Magnifying-Glass2-1024x819.jpg?fit=640%2C512&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tnvanrooyen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Magnifying-Glass2-1024x819-1024x819.jpg?resize=640%2C512&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-262\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tnvanrooyen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Magnifying-Glass2-1024x819.jpg?resize=1024%2C819&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tnvanrooyen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Magnifying-Glass2-1024x819.jpg?resize=300%2C240&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tnvanrooyen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/Magnifying-Glass2-1024x819.jpg?resize=768%2C614&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><figcaption>Image found <a href=\"http:\/\/lovebeingretired.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/Magnifying-Glass2-1024x819.jpg\">here<\/a>.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Finally back to some Q&amp;A.  Obviously some time has passed since these questions have been asked.  I will have to dig deep to remember how I felt about some of the topics, but I will do my best.  Here we go. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Amy: Were you worried about being labeled as sick and people treating you as infectious?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No, I don&#8217;t think I did really worry about that.  I tend to not focus too much on what I think other people think about me.  Whether that be how I look or how I behave.  I mean initially from the outside no one would be able to tell that I had cancer.  I looked much the same except for a bit more skinny and no energy, but I&#8217;d still smile and look happy. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After a few weeks of chemo, my hair started falling out.  Now, I had long hair and a bushy beard at this time. Almost a years worth of growth. \ud83d\ude42 So the hair and beard came off and I did look quite different.  I guess at this point it became more real to some close family, as they could now see the classic chemo bald headedness.  I was expecting it so didn&#8217;t really phase me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">  This wouldn&#8217;t be the first time I&#8217;ve gone from long hair to short hair.  To be honest, the previous time I did this was quite interesting.  I had long hair for quite a while and then cut it military-style short, without any explanation to workmates.  I found the stories that went around work quite amusing.  Some seemed to think I was joining the military, others thought I got arrested and spent the weekend in jail.  I just let people think what they want and don&#8217;t let it worry me.  If someone actually spoke to me about it, they would find out that all I wanted was some change. \ud83d\ude42  Also if they think that cancer is infectious then I&#8217;d try to educate them politely. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thank you for a great question Amy, I hope I managed to give a good answer.  There are many more questions to be answered so check back regularly. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Positively, T Neil van Rooyen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Finally back to some Q&amp;A. Obviously some time has passed since these questions have been asked. I will have to dig deep to remember how I felt about some of the topics, but I will do my best. 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